Mom squanders her 17-year-old's college fund, so the teen puts herself through school, then when mom asks to move in with her, she refuses: 'I worked full-time, took out loans, and it took me 6 years to get my degree'

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  • Mom and teen daughter arguing
  • AITJ for refusing to let my mom move in after she spent my entire college fund on my brother's wedding?
  • When I was 17, my mom told me she had a college fund set up for me since I was a kid. It wasn't huge, but it was supposed to cover my first two years of tuition. Fast forward to
  • senior year, I start applying for schools and ask her to send the tuition deposit. That's when she admitted she used the entire fund to pay for my older brother's wedding.
  • Her reasoning? “You can get scholarships, but weddings are once in a lifetime."
  • I was furious but just... swallowed it. I worked full- time, took out loans, and made it work. It took me 6 years to get my degree, but I did it without a cent of help from her.
  • Now, years later, my mom's in a rough spot. Her lease ended, and she asked if she could move in with me "for a few months." I told her no. I have a small
  • apartment, and honestly, I still feel resentful about what she did. She cried and said I was "punishing her for helping
  • family." My brother said I'm being "cold-hearted" since "she did it out of love." AITJ for refusing to let her stay with me?
  • Mom and teen daughter arguing in the living room.
  • PotatoMonster20 NTJ She can stay on your brother's couch. Or in a tent in his yard. Either way, it's not your problem.
  • WinterWolf4090 ⚫ Heck no. I mean I get it that it was her money. But still. To waste it on a wedding is irresponsible. Nta. Let her stay with your brother he owes her that
  • Seeker_ofLight NTA: She TOLD you she had a college fund set up for you. A great gift! But then she took that gift back and gave it to your brother. He got the benefit of $$$$. Your brother
  • can now repay that gift by stepping up "out of love" and "helping family". Interesting that your brother calls YOU the cold hearted one.
  • Dangerous_Mind-6... . She needs to stay with your brother. The "family" "she did it out of love" for.

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